Tuesday, September 5, 2017

beating hate and hatred



As you walk to long stretches in scorching heat for your pilgrimage, you can see after every few steps.. people in uniforms, volunteers ,teenagers and even school children..ready to sprinkle water over you to beat the heat .They defeat heat along with hatred.They spread love ,kindness and lots of smiles.

While focussing on non-issues ,we frequently tangle ourselves in the differences.

We forget these lines from the last sermon:

"O people: your lives and your property and your honour are inviolable to each other."
Yet we take lives for property and in the name of honour.
Lets beat this heat and hatred by accepting people for what they are.

Monday, March 13, 2017

Not Diamonds... adventures are forever.


So they say…“Do not believe them, go see it” I had never thought that I would instantly fall in love with Peshawar! This place has so much history attached to it...the hospitality is heartwarming and it is much more developed than our capital city. It was certainly one of the most amazing travelling experiences. Our visit included The Afghsanistan border at Torkham, beautiful but neglected Mahabat Khan mosque in Peshawar, the historic Khyber- rifles (also where Princess Diana stayed on her visit to peshawar) the famous charsi Tikka hotel Amazing dances and much more. There are so many different colors of human nature we observed. The weirdness (# the arrested tree) Beauty (#MahabatKhan Mosque with amazing intricate patterns) The brutality which makes you shiver with horror (#taimurLane tunnel filled with razors and blade to kill the prisoners by sliding them through this ) and The hospitality despite of language barriers (#amazing qahwas, amazing and welcoming smiles).Diamonds adventures are forever .

#charsiTikka #mahabatKhanMosque #peshawar #afghanistan #torkham #khyberrifle
 











Wednesday, March 8, 2017

A 21 gun salute for all women around the world (and some men)


This post is for women who have inspired ,lead, loved and shaped me directly or indirectly.
For my mothers, sister, aunts,teachers,friends,collegues
For all the malalas, muniba mazaris,mukhtarmais ,sharmeens
This is my 21 gun salute to women all around the world for
1.       For rising up strongly every time they break.
2.       For reading by magic, the heart, the  mind and unspoken words
3.       For multitasking each and every day. They can cook, read, teach, wash dishes at the same time without saying ‘ How can I listen?… I am cooking ‘(Not all men.. because rest of them do not cook;))
4.       For not only multitasking but multi-hearing too.(Is that a word? I seriously think it should be).Listening to five people at the same time and the very next second registering the complaints of not paying enough attention.
5.       For accepting to forgive thousands of times with a smile (ok and sometimes with rolling eyes)  
6.       For being the strongest pillar of strength God has made.
7.       For listening to the same story tenth time with the same awe and excitement
8.       For encouraging others even when her own feet falter with fear
9.       For being the last one to sleep.. making sure every one has been fed and read
10.   For being the unpaid Sunday worker happily
11.   For expression of her love in thousands of ways which might be taken for granted but that doesn’t make her stop.
12.   For comforting ,uplifting and  cheering
13.   For having the gift of giving
14.   For possessing a heart that melts even for those who make her cry
15.   For appreciating others while going unappreciated herself most of the times
16.   For being the sun who light up the sky  
17.   For managing and conforming to the values of two different families at the same time
18.   For radiating positive energy
19.   For practicing ‘ others first’ without realizing
20.   For agreeing to kill with a rolling eye instead of a gun and signing a peace deal merely with a glass of cold coffee .
21.   And one of course for men who encourage ,support ,give space and most of all give respect to women.



Thursday, November 10, 2016

Autumn's lesson

Nature reminds us every year to let go. Yet we cling to things that are not ours to keep. We cling to pain. We cling to people who have to go. Autumn shows us by example that there is beauty in letting go. 

Tuesday, September 20, 2016

The devil within


photo courtesy:islamclandmarks
The real devil we have to beat is within us.
It stops us ..
from forgiving,
from loving
and from accepting our differences .

If we beat this devil..we will find peace.

Thursday, September 3, 2015

lets keep the spirit alive

Dedicated to my grandparents

“I have accepted the fact that they are no longer there as a person - but their spirit will live forever! And as such, the body is not what I’m attached to; I’m attached to the spirit of a person. The question is how can I attach myself to a body full of weakness if the great spirit of goodness lives on forever! I have learned that acceptance makes us live a happy life and reality is not always a fairytale.”(Mike Horn)

People do leave us..but they within us..
Some live as courage and strength..
Some as unconditional love..
Some as generosity ..
And some with their liveliness and optimism.
We just have to keep the spirit alive somehow!..
When you are left with no grandparents..half of the world seems to end.
But we might be able to keep their spirit alive… if we pass on the unconditional love they introduce us to.
No one in the world can make you feel as special as your grandparents do..but we can  keep the spirit alive by making people  believe that there is something special about them.
We can keep the spirit alive by limitless forgiveness to keep each member of the family together.
We can keep the spirit alive by covering and hiding each other’s shortcomings  and appreciating the goodness which surely lies within everyone.





Saturday, September 28, 2013

the pleasures we so easily miss



As I was not feeling well , I decide to rest for a while. After a while my two daughters came and started playing besides me. I wanted to order them to just leave me alone. But I somehow resisted. I am glad I did. After a while, my three year old daughter came and asked me “what happened?” .I told her that  I was not feeling well. She said:’ You will get ok. Just hold my hand’.
She kept holding my hand gently but firmly while playing with the other hand.

Amidst all the yelling, shouting and ordering we miss all the little pleasures that God has sent for us. These are little gifts that forever remain unopened with our  impulse to yell at every small thing they do.